Like old married couples

Man, our fellowship group has some serious issues. Its always constant bickering and arguing - and about the dumbest things too! I haven't been in a group like this before. Everyone just seems to know how to get under each other's skin. But then again, their stubbornness comes into play as well. Its just two negative energy going at each other. Neither one refuses to give in and just let the problem settle, thus elevating the situation to a whole new level so by the time it reaches its peak, it becomes a stupid little thing that the rest of us have to go along with. There are so many ways to avoid it all together, but they just won't do it. Its really dampens a relationship; despite whatever reconciliation they go through because there's always going to be that cloud hovering overhead. They'll go about with their lives, become good friends again, but it would never be the same - which completely sucks. But I guess if you look at it this way, if it doesn't kill us, it'll only make us stronger. Hopefully.